For many it is frightening, and it is one of the main reasons why many men are left alone longer than they really want.
If you are not able to handle the fear of rejection, I am sorry to tell you that you will not succeed with women and that you will probably never end up in a relationship with a smart, beautiful, incredible woman. In the end as always the desired.
1. The mistake of being a stalker
If you see a beautiful woman sitting there, it's in your nature to see her often. Then you start thinking about how you're going to get close to her and what you're going to say... In that long process you stay looking at her more and more.
And this is prolonged because you are afraid to get close to it, that's why you've been doing nothing but looking for hours...
But she has also already been noticing that you've been staring at her all the time, looking like a female stalker, that's what she plays. She will have negative feelings about your behavior and certainly if you approach her she will reject you out of fear.
So if you see a woman you like, do not think too much, go for it immediately, so you avoid being rejected by a woman who interests you. At least you will reduce in a high percentage that happens to you. Learn how to approach a woman.
2. Need
We've all been through this once, most men see a beautiful woman and think "I want to have her" (as if that woman were an object).
We want to go talk to her, already with a certain purpose in mind: Get her number, or LucÃrnosla in front of our friends, or to take her to our house, or whatever.
When this type of men approach a woman, they are fully committed to the outcome they want to achieve, and this is not bad, but the problem is that they are determined to do whatever it takes to "close the deal."
And this is where more than 95% of men behave as needed with women because of this.
They do so many things of little value to have that woman, that the woman notices it, and in the mind of it it shoots an alarm which tells it to run!
It is important to stop romanticizing the woman before you know her and let it be the very connection of the interaction that makes her the one who is interested in you.
You keep that interest in low profile, that she doubted your intension. Don't reveal yourself so fast!
3. They are in "search mode"
Many men leave their homes for the sole purpose of going to hunt women, they go out in "search mode" as the author calls this article.
For example, I used to go to clubs and parties on the weekend for the sole purpose of meeting women, not for fun, but you're sabotaging because women hate that way of men's behavior, going to meet women is fabulous , you're being assertive, going through what you want. However, you might be more attractive to women if you have fun at the same time you're a league.
So go out and have fun, seduction will be the secondary result of your fun!
This really is one of the most common reasons why men are being rejected by a woman, especially if you add alcohol in the mix!
4. Try to impress them
One of the most fundamental needs we have as men is that we like to impress women. Some think that money is needed, some go for fame and others think about how they look.
Unfortunately, it is also one of the most common reasons why many men are being rejected by a woman. It doesn't matter what you believe, but you have to realize that you don't need to do any of those things to impress women.
Women will always be impressed by the man who doesn't even have to try to impress them! It is important to keep this in mind, you have to feel valuable, be confident in yourself and feel that you are good enough to attract any woman.
5. They do not realize that women test them
Women are constantly testing men to see if they can take control and become a coward.
She could demand something crazy just to see if you're strong enough to say NO, she could throw you a tantrum to see if you're going to let her get away with it, they usually do it unconscious, it's a behavior Genetic.
Women's tests will never stop, even when you're married for more than 50 years they're going to keep doing it, if you manage to "pass" their tests, she'll trust you instantly, so to get her trust, you don't have to get her approval.
6. Bad Body language
Your body language says much more about you than your words, especially when you approach a woman. Most men feel the need to force their body language to the point that they are acting, they are not being them and women notice it.
They look nervous, tense, and believe me that many women reject a man not by his opener or what he says, but rather by his bad body language. The attraction doesn't work that way, as many believe!
That's why one way to attract women is by using good body language. And you probably already know what to do, you just have to be more aware of it: walk a little higher, shoulders back, always look at the front...
7. Last but not least
It is also important to know that if a woman rejects you, it does not necessarily have to do with you, or that you are to blame, she could have a boyfriend or be happily married, or a man before you, I tried to board and was a complete idiot and she at that time had no Want to talk to some other guy.
Maybe she was in a hormonal situation, or perhaps she wants to increase her ego by rejecting men, whatever there is no need to take a rejection personally, the most important seducers in the world are regularly rejected and they are not affected by It, why don't you take it personally and do it for fun.
Another thing before I go: you can't avoid rejection. If you make a lot of approaches with women, going out rejected by a woman in some cases will be inevitable. And if you dare not approach anyone, you are rejecting yourself.
